"Why wouldn't he be looking at her? Isn't she CONDUCTING the ritual? Isn't everyone watching Aphrodite conduct the ritual?!"

She is, and everyone is. Zoey is pissed because he ought to be "sneaking glances" at her, because heaven forbid he not devote every second to her.

"Zoey, you have shown absolutely no interest to Erik. Yes, your internal dialogue has shown otherwise, but he asked you on a date, you turned him down, then you made no effort to reschedule it even though you want to. To him, you have essentially rejected him and hinted that you would rather be friends."

Technically she did reschedule, but they really have had minimal interaction thus far.

"You don't even deserve Erik! You only think of him as damaged goods because he had the gall to date Aphrodite before you waltz on scene despite the fact that it sounds like he was forced to date her, but you are so awesome you look over that little fact, don't you?"

This, a million times. Not only that, but all she does is go on about how hot he is, even though they're supposed to have the Deep and Meaningful relationship going on. -_-